Birthday Sex....

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up within the next week or so.... I bought him a new pair of tennis shoes, a drinking game, and i'm giving him $150 to put towards buying a new motorcycle helmet. He's told me plenty of times that all he wants is anal sex. He's been trying to get me to do this with him since before christmas. I told him that I would CONSIDER it... that's not a guaranteed yes, but i'm not completely shutting down his idea. But i also told him in order for me to CONSIDER this he would have to do his research on how it to go about it, with it being out first time and all. The subject was brought up again today over text.

Me: Have you even looked into it? (porn doesn't count).
Him: Sure.....
Me: So no. You can't expect me to do it with you if you don't know what you're doing.
Him: I know what I'm doing.
Me: How? You've done it before?
Him: Insert in hole.
Me: No. That's not just how it works. There's a lot more to it.
Him: Sure.
Me: Unlike you I've done my reading. But you're the one who wants it so you need to do your part.
Him: Lol. Tell me.
Me: Nope. If you really wanted to do it then you would read up. But until you can tell me, I don't trust you to do that. Because there is more to know than "Insert in hole."
Him: Lol.
Me: Glad it's funny to you. Have you done it before?
Him: No.

I am not the one who is pushing for this to happen. I am trying to be open minded though and the person that wants it to happen is not willing to put forth the effort to look it up and read a little about how to go about so that you're not hurting the woman. A lot of a pain and infections etc can happen from doing this, so I feel he needs to be responsible and do his research so we do it right. Although if he is not going to take it seriously then I suppose he's going to be in for a sad birthday. Meh, not my problem I guess...